Daily Quote: “A path is only a path, and there is no affront, to oneself or to others, in dropping it if
that is what your heart tells you . . . Look at every path closely and deliberately.
Try it as many times as you think necessary. Then ask yourself alone, one question . . .
Does this path have a heart? If it does, the path is good; if it doesn’t it is of no use.”
— Carlos Castaneda, The Teachings of Don Juan
Reflection: Carlos Castaneda is arguing for us to have more patience and persistence when purpose our purpose in life. Then, he is challenging us to be smart about how long we need to pursue a “path” that isn’t working for us. The burden of his insightful quote and message is for us to know our strengths and direction for living a purposeful life. In others have some measures to indicate whether our direction is working. The petty of his quote is that he does not mention data or knowledge as the most important measurement. His advice is to use our “heart” as the way to evaluate if our direction is working. If by “heart” he means measuring and staying in touch with our passion, intuition and “gut feelings” I agree fully with him.
Everyone has intuitive experiences but few know how to use intuition effectively because we tend to talk about intuition as a single ability where, in fact, there are several levels of intuitive abilities. They are not the same and not useful in the same ways. For example, the most common intuitive experience is the common “gut feeling”. A gut feeling is an intuitive reaction to something either positively or negatively. When we experience a gut feeling it is an indicator that we are on the right track or that something is wrong. The big question you need to be aware of when a decision based on your “heart” or “gut” is whether we can trust our feelings more than our rational thinking to make a decision? I suggest that we listen to our gut feeling and use it as an indicator but not necessarily they ultimate decision maker. Stop and listen to you uncomfortable feelings. Then step back and take a break which allows you to be more aware of other possible alternatives and weigh the consequences of our pending decision. Ask yourself what you are or not seeing on your chosen path? Get clarity on what is working or not working for you? What is blocking or interfering with you reaching your goals?
Self-Coaching Challenge: In your coaching process use your journal to explore whether your purpose or path is working for you and what you need to do or change if it isn’t working. Learning to make non-emotional decisions based on life experiences and some relaxation exercises and mediation have proven best for me. The key to the ability to use your unconscious and intuitive skills is practice and awareness that it is trying to tell you something. Just learn to listen, then decide and act with 100% commitment.