Daily Quote: “The crux of leadership development that works is self-directed learning: intentionally developing or strengthening an aspect of who you are or who you want to be, or both.” Daniel Goleman, Author of Emotional Intelligence
Reflection: In my ongoing search for the essence of leadership and identifying what works and doesn’t is that leaders arise out of experiences, knowledge of how people work together in teams to accomplish more than they can alone, feedback from others on their success and failures and the willingness and openness to change.
We really don’t know how the world works either as leaders or followers. We only perceive how organizations, teams and individuals work or don’t work from our unique perception; and our perceptual viewpoint , core values and beliefs our are based upon life experiences, who we are, what we are aware of and how we integrate all these things into our daily behaviors in the world around us.
Here are the principles of a self-discovery mental model that lead to changes and learning:
1. Values and Beliefs influence our view of the world
2. Perception of present and past experiences color our self- awareness. Thus awareness becomes our reality.
3. Reality sets our mental maps and suggests possibilities for the future. Possiblities open us to opportunities and away from problems. This mental set of possibilities generate alternatives for action.
4. Our choices determine our behavior and build habits and determine our impact and results.
Outcomes impact beliefs and facilitates openness to personal change.