Daily Quote According to Julian Treasure we have a major problem in interpersonal communications–“We Losing our ability to listen and understand others—We spend 65% of our day listening and only remember 25% of what is said to us.”
Reflection: What caught my attention, however, was the section where he talks about listening for leaders, teachers, spouses, parents or friends. He uses “RASA”, the sanskrit word for essence, as an acronym for effective listening The essence of effective listening is to use-Rasa (Receive, Appreciate Summarize and Ask) to be more engaged in the art of effective listening.
What caught my attention, however, was the section where he talks about listening for leaders, teachers, spouses, parents or friends. He uses “Rasa”, meaning the essence or core , as an acronym for:
Receive – pay attention and make a unique connect
Appreciate – show that you are engaged and interested –turn-off the cell and put down the Blackberry etc.
Summarize – make sure you understood
Ask – expand your knowledge
Other topics he tackles in this AHA Speech are the barriers to listening. He says we are to impatient and pickup just sound bites, we are all too much in a hurry and no one teaches us about the importance and how to listening more effectively. We must all learn to listen more consciously to understand each other by consciously listening for understanding, rather than shouting, criticizing and judging others. If concentrate on learning the skills of listening we can create a better world by understanding and respecting others.
Here is my reflective challenge for you –View the TED video by Julian Treasure then ask Are you embracing listening in your daily interactions ? In your different roles of parent, teacher, mentor are your actions aligned with the RASA elements of listening. And if not how could you put them into your life so that relationships become more effective?